“Rayuan untuk Suami”

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Suami: my „ bolehkan abi nikah lg „?

Istri: kenapa by?? Apa umi dah ga menarik buat abi??

Suami: bukan gitu sayang….Justr­ u karena aby sangat cinta sm Umy , makanya aby ingin nikah lg „ lagi pula mi , nikah itu sunnah lho (sambil cengengesan)

Istri: ya bi , umi tau „ klo aby sayang umi ,
Dan umi tau klo TA’ADUD itu sunnah …
Tp by„ kenapa cm ngikutin sunnah tentang ta’adud sementara bnyk sunnah yg lain yg belum aby kerjakan ….
Aby jarang bangun tahajjud padahal itu sunnah yg mu’aqadah , aby selalu bangun subuh kesiangan padahal shalat shubuh itu fardhu yg wajib…
Abi jarang silahturahim jangan kan ke tetangga kerumah mertua aja ga pernah…
Aby ga pernah nengokin orang sakit padahal itu sunnah yg di anjurkan…
Kenapa hanya Sunnah Ta’adud yg ingin aby lakukan sementara banyak Ribuan sunnah yg dianjurkan tp aby tinggalkan

Suami : bengong (guuuuuragh pingsan)

Nach lho… Jangan terburu2 dngn nafsu yg beralasan sunnah tp masih belum mampu melaksanakan sunnah yg lazim

Renungkanlah wahai para suami^_^

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uncomfortablesoul:

You are part of someone else’s life. Others fill their loves with pieces of you. So if you run out of reasons to live, remember that someone else’s life can never be complete without you in it.
You were created to love and be loved. You were meant to live life in relationship with other people, to know and be known. You need to know that your story is important and that you’re part of a bigger story. You need to know that your life matters.

uncomfortablesoul:

You are part of someone else’s life. Others fill their loves with pieces of you. So if you run out of reasons to live, remember that someone else’s life can never be complete without you in it.

You were created to love and be loved. You were meant to live life in relationship with other people, to know and be known. You need to know that your story is important and that you’re part of a bigger story. You need to know that your life matters.

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uncomfortablesoul:

“Maybe you don’t like your job, maybe you didn’t get enough sleep. Well, nobody likes their job, nobody got enough sleep. Maybe you just had the worst day of your life, but you know, there’s no escape and there’s no excuse, so just suck it up and be nice.” - Ani DiFranco ‘Pixie’
Don’t let a bad day make you feel like you have  bad life. Without bad days, how would you be able to know what a good day is like? You have to believe that when things are bad, You can change them. So be grateful about your bad day, it means that a good day is just around the corner. Com’on SMILE :)

uncomfortablesoul:

“Maybe you don’t like your job, maybe you didn’t get enough sleep. Well, nobody likes their job, nobody got enough sleep. Maybe you just had the worst day of your life, but you know, there’s no escape and there’s no excuse, so just suck it up and be nice.” - Ani DiFranco ‘Pixie’

Don’t let a bad day make you feel like you have  bad life. Without bad days, how would you be able to know what a good day is like? You have to believe that when things are bad, You can change them. So be grateful about your bad day, it means that a good day is just around the corner. Com’on SMILE :)


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uncomfortablesoul:

life is going to throw you so many obstacles to overcome. some are going to be easier than others, some will leave you happy and some will kill you deep inside. but no matter what happens in the end, it’ll always bring along more and more obstacles to face. You just have to stand tall, hold your head high and just take whatever life brings to you.
The main thing I learned? if you aren’t willing to put up with a little pain, you won’t go far. With every journey you’ll get scratches and bruises, but if you really love it, those scratches will be worth it and you wouldn’t really notice them because you take the pain with the joy.
The important thing is not to bitter over life’s disappointments. Learn to let go of the past and recognize that everyday won’t be sunny. And when you find yourself lost in the darkness of despair, remember, it’s only in the black of night that you see the stars, and those stars lead you back home.

uncomfortablesoul:

life is going to throw you so many obstacles to overcome. some are going to be easier than others, some will leave you happy and some will kill you deep inside. but no matter what happens in the end, it’ll always bring along more and more obstacles to face. You just have to stand tall, hold your head high and just take whatever life brings to you.

The main thing I learned? if you aren’t willing to put up with a little pain, you won’t go far. With every journey you’ll get scratches and bruises, but if you really love it, those scratches will be worth it and you wouldn’t really notice them because you take the pain with the joy.

The important thing is not to bitter over life’s disappointments. Learn to let go of the past and recognize that everyday won’t be sunny. And when you find yourself lost in the darkness of despair, remember, it’s only in the black of night that you see the stars, and those stars lead you back home.

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uncomfortablesoul:

“Sometimes your biggest battle is to believe in yourself.”
I feared rejection until I learned to have faith in myself.I feared pain until I learned that it’s necessary for growth.I feared the truth until I saw the ugliness in lies.I feared life until I experienced its beauty.I feared death until I realized that it’s not an end, but a beginning.I feared my destiny, until I realized that I had the power to change my life.I feared hate until I saw that it was nothing more than ignorance.I feared love until it touched my heart, making the darkness fade into endless sunny daysI feared ridicule until I learned how to laugh at myself.I feared growing old until I realized that I gained wisdom every day.I feared the future until I realized that life just kept getting better.I feared the past until I realized that it could no longer hurt me.I feared the dark until I saw the beauty of the starlight.I feared the light until I learned that the truth would give me strength.I feared change, until I saw that even the most beautiful butterfly had to undergoa metamorphosis before it could fly.
learn to believe in yourself.

uncomfortablesoul:

“Sometimes your biggest battle is to believe in yourself.”

I feared rejection until I learned to have faith in myself.
I feared pain until I learned that it’s necessary for growth.
I feared the truth until I saw the ugliness in lies.
I feared life until I experienced its beauty.
I feared death until I realized that it’s not an end, but a beginning.
I feared my destiny, until I realized that I had the power to change my life.
I feared hate until I saw that it was nothing more than ignorance.
I feared love until it touched my heart, making the darkness fade into endless sunny days
I feared ridicule until I learned how to laugh at myself.
I feared growing old until I realized that I gained wisdom every day.
I feared the future until I realized that life just kept getting better.
I feared the past until I realized that it could no longer hurt me.
I feared the dark until I saw the beauty of the starlight.
I feared the light until I learned that the truth would give me strength.
I feared change, until I saw that even the most beautiful butterfly had to undergo
a metamorphosis before it could fly.

learn to believe in yourself.

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uncomfortablesoul:

Leave back all your worries and troubles of yesterday,Make yourself a silent promise to make today a better day. A day, however good or bad, has gone by, Now it is the time to look at the bright blue sky. 
The morning sun brings about new hope. It is a promise that troubles are washed away with yesterday.  Today is a brand new day so make the most of it, Live as if it were your last and enjoy every minute. For every single day is a gift from God.
Every day is a new day. Every hour is a new hour. Every second is a new second. Every moment is a new moment. We can’t go back into the past so there’s no point in living there. 
Every new day is another chance to change something in your life. Every new day is a chance to feel blessed for what you have.

uncomfortablesoul:

Leave back all your worries and troubles of yesterday,
Make yourself a silent promise to make today a better day. 
A day, however good or bad, has gone by,
Now it is the time to look at the bright blue sky. 

The morning sun brings about new hope.
It is a promise that troubles are washed away with yesterday.
Today is a brand new day so make the most of it,
Live as if it were your last and enjoy every minute.
For every single day is a gift from God.

Every day is a new day. Every hour is a new hour. Every second is a new second. Every moment is a new moment. We can’t go back into the past so there’s no point in living there. 

Every new day is another chance to change something in your life. Every new day is a chance to feel blessed for what you have.

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uncomfortablesoul:

“Accept everything about yourself, I mean everything. You are you and that is the beginning and the end, no apologizes, no regrets.” - Clark Moustakas

uncomfortablesoul:

“Accept everything about yourself, I mean everything. You are you and that is the beginning and the end, no apologizes, no regrets.” - Clark Moustakas


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uncomfortablesoul:

Got out of bed today, I’m alive, what can I say? :)
Have a wonderful day everyone! *hugs*

uncomfortablesoul:

Got out of bed today, I’m alive, what can I say? :)


Have a wonderful day everyone! *hugs*

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uncomfortablesoul:

You Have a Choice
You can choose to listen to people who bring you down, or to tune in to those who lift you up.
You can choose between making a snide, destructive comment, or you can make an encouraging, uplifting one.
You can choose to sit and worry about the worst that could happen, or you can start making progress now, and choose to have faith that everything will work out.
You can cancel the plans you made while you were on that emotional high, or you can go through with your ambitious plans anyway.
You can choose to continue down the path everyone else follows, or you can choose to start living with intention, right now.
You can choose not to contact that person because you could be rejected, or you can reach out because you might be accepted.
You can choose scarcity or choose abundance.
You can choose fear or choose bravery.
You can choose to play their game, responding to negativity with more negativity, or you can turn their energy into a source of creativity and opportunity.
You can ignore your inner genius because it doesn’t fit within someone else’s worldview, or you can embrace who you were meant to be and give all you have to the world.
You can choose to blame others or to take responsibility.
The energy it takes to make either of these choices is the same.
You always have a choice.
Which choice will you make, right now?
- Corbett Barr

uncomfortablesoul:

You Have a Choice


You can choose to listen to people who bring you down, or to tune in to those who lift you up.

You can choose between making a snide, destructive comment, or you can make an encouraging, uplifting one.

You can choose to sit and worry about the worst that could happen, or you can start making progress now, and choose to have faith that everything will work out.

You can cancel the plans you made while you were on that emotional high, or you can go through with your ambitious plans anyway.

You can choose to continue down the path everyone else follows, or you can choose to start living with intention, right now.

You can choose not to contact that person because you could be rejected, or you can reach out because you might be accepted.

You can choose scarcity or choose abundance.

You can choose fear or choose bravery.

You can choose to play their game, responding to negativity with more negativity, or you can turn their energy into a source of creativity and opportunity.

You can ignore your inner genius because it doesn’t fit within someone else’s worldview, or you can embrace who you were meant to be and give all you have to the world.

You can choose to blame others or to take responsibility.

The energy it takes to make either of these choices is the same.

You always have a choice.

Which choice will you make, right now?

Corbett Barr

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uncomfortablesoul:

Dear someone, 
You’re like the sun on a cloudy day, you always peek through the crowd and make me smile. 
i love you:)
Finally I have found a place into which I fit perfectly, safely and securely with no doubts, no fears, no sadness, and no tears. This place is filled with happiness and laughter, yet it is spacious enough to allow me the freedom to move around, to live my life and to be myself. This wonderful place, which I never believed really existed, I have found finally, in your arms, in your heart, in your love.
You moved me. Not literally-you obviously didn’t pick me up and place me in a different place then I was before, thought emotionally and mentally..I am- but you touched my heart in ways that nobody ever has before. You truly taught me who I am and what I’ve done wrong. I trust you. You trust me. And that’s all that matters. Because you’re someone that has touched my heart and made me believe in myself in ways that nobody ever has before.

uncomfortablesoul:

Dear someone,

You’re like the sun on a cloudy day, you always peek through the crowd and make me smile.

i love you:)

Finally I have found a place into which I fit perfectly, safely and securely with no doubts, no fears, no sadness, and no tears. This place is filled with happiness and laughter, yet it is spacious enough to allow me the freedom to move around, to live my life and to be myself. This wonderful place, which I never believed really existed, I have found finally, in your arms, in your heart, in your love.

You moved me. Not literally-you obviously didn’t pick me up and place me in a different place then I was before, thought emotionally and mentally..I am- but you touched my heart in ways that nobody ever has before. You truly taught me who I am and what I’ve done wrong. I trust you. You trust me. And that’s all that matters. Because you’re someone that has touched my heart and made me believe in myself in ways that nobody ever has before.

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